Is It Advisable to Discus Salary with Your Fiancé(é)? Here is What Other Have to Say
Following an anonymous post, a true fan of a Facebook page, leanritehere.com noticed on a very important subject which we decided to share here. The subject matter in the middle of the conversation was, “Is it advisable to discuss my salary with my fiancé who is not working?” This was really a matter of personal and relationships affairs, but the true fan decided to seek the views of the followers of the page.
We will also share with you what the other followers had to say on this subject dear to the heart of an anonymous poster. Now according to this poster, she is currently torn in between in a thin line and finding it difficult on deciding on this very subject.
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She revealed that her fiancé has been unemployed for a couple of months now. They went into this relationship stuff at the time both were not engaged in any economic activities. Thanks be to God and luck on her part, landed on a job and she is currently working.
The anonymous poster once made a statement on whether to tell her fiancé on the amount she takes as salary every month or it should be kept secretly. This post since uploaded on the Facebook page which we’ll let you know at the end of this post has heightened attentions with many sharing their views.
But in general, do you think it is okay to share your any information about your salary with a fiancé? For a consideration, the fiancé is not yet married to you and how will he feel if he gets to hear of this? Lots are soon to be unfolded; followers of the post really supported this anonymous lady with a lot.
Here are thoughts of followers of the Facebook page.
There were many who were of the view that, though it will be a good idea to share the info with her fiancé but she should trade some cautious. What caution is that? They said, in dealing with matters like this, maturity and sense of communication play major role. That is, how the fiancé reacts to issues should be carefully examined before letting the cat out.
Another follower who made a comment in relation to the above indicated, issue like this really cost the trust she shared with her fiancé. This later resulted in breakup. She alleged that the fiancé at some point in time suspected her of getting her ins out to land on such a lucrative salary job. Pressure was on her at some point too, she had to foot all bills since they were staying together though were not married yet.
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In fact, the conversation on the page was so interesting. Majority of the comments tone the same line like the ones above, but there were some who also said otherwise. What did they say?
What did they say?
They stated that it will be good for her to share such information with the fiancé without going ahead to check his maturity level and the likes. They believe sharing with him will put some form of confidence and hope on his eyes. Signalling to him that, there will be a day he is also going to land on his dream job.
They said this will even put pressure on him to go out there and get something to be dong. Men are naturally do not want to be catered for by women, such cases make them feel bad and insecure, one wrote. That if the guy is serious with her and wants to take the relationship thing to the next level, he’ll certainly get serious and find something to do.
The greater number of them wrote that, the lady should divide the total amount into two and tell him. The full amount shouldn’t be let out. This is in a bit to test his reactions. The last time learnitehere.com check from the page, it has received about 1k comments with greater number asking the lady to divide the amount into two and tell him
Few of them strongly disapproved all of these and advised the lady not to even make the mistake to mention her salary to the fiancé
But the question here is; what if she doesn’t tell him and he gets to know about it?
Does this have any seriously implications on trust issues?
We would gladly want to know your thoughts on this, if you were in the shoes, what would be your option? Will you choose to let the information out or you keep it secretly?
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It was first uploaded on Abena Manokekame’s page and later uploaded on another page called, ‘Unsingle Me’.
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